Change is the only constant, isn’t it? And have you experienced something like this that you met someone after years and they tell you; you have changed a lot or maybe you didn’t change!
so what is good then you changed or you don’t?
Or what is bad then if you don’t want somebody to change with few things but they do!
Okay seems you are not getting the context so here I am telling you a story!
I met a guy through a common friend for the very first time in 2011 and we became so good friends we spend a good amount of years together and for me; he was my best friend; we used to talk for hours, meet a lot, roam and even fight a lot; later with the time, we started introducing each other to more people like his friends, my friends, his siblings and then my family.
He was not only a friend but I guess with time he became family and I guess being an outspoken person I confront him.
Then there was a day when he moved back to his hometown from my hometown; and every time I had someone whom I can talk about my life and I feel that he will be always there; the fact it doesn’t seem to happen!
He went and then I moved to another city, with the passing year we were in touch but there was a gap between us which was building and it was I guess somewhere my fault; I didn’t realize that people change with time hence I wasn’t.
And again after years we met, and I was trying to make the conversation with my best friend and then I realize that now he is no best friend and he is a different person now; he himself said PEOPLE DO CHANGE WITH TIME BUT YOU DIDN’T CHANGED!
It was somewhere a heartbreak for me, being a people minded person always seeing the best in people I realized that everyone is good and people don’t change for the one they care for, but that is what I think and it is unnecessary that what is me and you think the other person is thinking in the same direction; people have unique perspective and circumstances and they change them.
I felt bad that is it something wrong with me I am still the same and people everywhere is changing but then I realize that is the way I am, and if even your best friend is changing, there is nothing you can do with; there are few things which you can’t control; it’s okay to feel sad for some time but you cannot cry every day on the silly fact.
Let me know your thought on this.